Comments on: Generic Seasonal Greetings

By: woodstock

woodstock — Sun, 18 Dec 2005 21:57:50 +0000

I’m starting to reconsider the whole gift giving experience in and of itself. Yeah, gifts are great but I don’t have but two kids in my life (and they live distant) so most of the people I’d buy for are 1) adults, and 2) probably have everything they could possibly want anyway. I figure it’s time to start reforming the holidays: make it about sharing a meal and some time, even if that time is only “hey, want to hang out for a couple of hours and talk trash about the latest [fill in interest here]?” We’ve too much stuff in our lives and not enough time for those we like and love. Delete me if I’m too serious for the season, ‘k? :)

By: susan dennis

susan dennis — Thu, 15 Dec 2005 04:53:25 +0000

” Instead, buy yourself something special or, better yet, let’s try to see each other more often? ”

Or in many cases the real gift would be seeing each other less often…

By: Rachael

Rachael — Wed, 14 Dec 2005 21:49:02 +0000

We’re all with ya.

Of course, that’s speaking as someone who’s already sent you a Christmas parcel, so I guess I’m a “fine one to talk”! But having said that, we’re still managing to trade on the “coming from Australia” factor with most of our overseas friends! :-)

Cards and letters… we haven’t done our cards yet, tonight might be the night. We don’t have a letter, because, well… we’re just a bit boring! We enjoy receiving them from others and we occasionally think about doing our own, but we usually manage to overcome the urge.

I try not to buy gifts “per se”. I TRY to only buy things that “speak to me”. That’s why Steve’s sister ISN’T getting the Bono book (even though she would probably like it), but she’s getting the thing I saw in a shop last night that “spoke” to me. Trouble is with this method that I end up with 8 gifts for my friend Cathy and none for her husband! LOL! But at least in my saner moments I can laugh about it.

Has the “grumpy old men” and “grumpy old women” Christmas shows screened in the US? They’re British, so there’s a bit of cultural stuff to wade through, but apart from that, they’re hilarious! They describe perfectly all the issues you’ve raised and the perspectives from the gender viewpoints are great. Watch the men first!

Oh, and I’m all for gift cards too!

By: Greg Tsou

Greg Tsou — Wed, 14 Dec 2005 18:23:45 +0000

Gift cards. That should say it all.

By: lunanoir

lunanoir — Wed, 14 Dec 2005 12:11:28 +0000

Hahahaaa.

Oh, god, I feel the same way in so many ways. Especially for those of you I don’t see very often. Said spouse you had trouble with is easy for me, because I listen to his everyday ranting and raving, and we game together. Your spouse, for example, provides me with a little more trouble.

And yes, we *do* say the same thing about your obscure biking doodads.

(And I always love getting those holiday letters too, although I must admit that a certain former coworker of mine, who sends out a double sided, no pictures narrative of the year broken down by family member is really tedious. I, however, haven’t sent out Christmas cards in two years. I’ve noticed I’ve gotten less this year as well. My thought is that others are as lazy as me!)

By: Tredecillion

Tredecillion — Tue, 13 Dec 2005 21:27:13 +0000

Hehe, you are making this far too hard. My philosophy when in gift-giving doubt is to pick a store I know my intended recipient would like to shop at, find something interesting from there, and buy it and get the gift receipt. You don’t like the gift, you get to roll again. (This, by the way, is how I rolled for you.) The thought that counts is then in the *where*, not the *what*, and it takes the pressure off.

Also, for the record, my husband will buy most computer games he wants on his own accord in record time, though Prison Tycoon amuses me for title alone. Fry’s is, in fact, his perfect store though, so if you are still stuck, pick a projection clock or sound machine alarm clock or a gaming mousepad, etc. and be done with it. :)

And, also for the record, my Christmas cards aren’t out yet either.